It’s a Love Story #2: Awakening Love (#Sermon of the Week)


(Beausejour Church – Pastor Chris Jordan)

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“The song of songs, which is Solomon’s.” (Song 1:1, NKJV).

  • Three names to this book: Song of Songs, Song of Solomon, Canticles (Latin for song).
  • The Song of Solomon is a picture of a beautiful relationship between a husband and a wife, and it is also an allegory for our loving relationship with Jesus our Saviour.

INTRO TO TOPIC: Have you ever had times in your Christian walk where God seems far away?

“At certain times in life we feel the presence of God very tangibly. Our whole life seems touched by His presence and we freely enjoy being with Him. At other times, God seems to be distant or event absent… Why is this? Is it normal? Is it because we have done something wrong?” (Graham Cooke, Hiddenness & Manifestation).

PERSONAL TESTIMONY: Most challenging year in 21 years of ministry; Felt like giving up, challenge to feel the presence of God; sometimes felt like in a storm or fog, walking by faith.

  • Held onto one promise – “I will build my church” – hell will not prevail (real enemy = Satan).
  • Bright spots here & there – worship practice one night with Ken’s team. There is hope for YOU!

THE BIG IDEA: When we become comfortable and complacent in our relationship with Jesus, we need to stir up our passion to seek after Him anew.


“1 The Shulamite By night on my bed I sought the one I love; I sought him, but I did not find him. 2 “I will rise now,” I said, “And go about the city; In the streets and in the squares I will seek the one I love.” I sought him, but I did not find him. 3 The watchmen who go about the city found me; I said, “Have you seen the one I love?” 4 Scarcely had I passed by them, When I found the one I love. I held him and would not let him go, Until I had brought him to the house of my mother, And into the chamber of her who conceived me. 5 I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, By the gazelles or by the does of the field, Do not stir up nor awaken love Until it pleases.” (Song 3:1-5, NKJV).

  • This reminds me of the story of Jacob when he wrestled with the Lord:
  • “And He said, “Let Me go, for the day breaks.” But he said, “I will not let You go unless You bless me!” So He said to him, “What is your name?” He said, “Jacob.” And He said, “Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel; for you have struggled with God and with men, and have prevailed.” (Genesis 32:26-28).
  • Do you have that much passion to encounter God? His Promise: “And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart” (Jeremiah 29:13).


“Go forth, O daughters of Zion, And see King Solomon with the crown With which his mother crowned him On the day of his wedding, The day of the gladness of his heart.” (Song 3:11).

  • “Let us be glad and rejoice and give Him glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His wife has made herself ready.” And to her it was granted to be arrayed in fine linen, clean and bright, for the fine linen is the righteous acts of the saints.” (Rev. 19:7-8).

“1 The Beloved Behold, you are fair, my love! Behold, you are fair! 7 You are all fair, my love, And there is no spot in you. 8 Come with me from Lebanon, my spouse, With me from Lebanon. Look from the top of Amana, From the top of Senir and Hermon, From the lions’ dens, From the mountains of the leopards. 9 You have ravished my heart, My sister, my spouse; You have ravished my heart With one look of your eyes, With one link of your necklace.” (Song 4:1a,7-9).

  • Chapter four is the beloved’s beautiful description of the bride.
  • See how much Jesus loves us: “You have ravished My heart!”

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.” (Eph. 5:25-27).

  • This shows us how important reading and obeying the Bible is.
  • We are being made ready for the marriage supper of the Lamb!


“2 The Shulamite I sleep, but my heart is awake; It is the voice of my beloved! He knocks, saying, “Open for me, my sister, my love, My dove, my perfect one; For my head is covered with dew, My locks with the drops of the night.” (Song 5:2).

  • Just like Jesus in Revelation 3:20: “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me.”
  • Unfortunately, the Shulamite in the story was sleeping – are you asleep? Time to awake!

“3 I have taken off my robe; How can I put it on again? I have washed my feet; How can I defile them? 4 My beloved put his hand By the latch of the door, And my heart yearned for him. 5 I arose to open for my beloved, And my hands dripped with myrrh, My fingers with liquid myrrh, On the handles of the lock. 6 I opened for my beloved, But my beloved had turned away and was gone. My heart leaped up when he spoke. I sought him, but I could not find him; I called him, but he gave me no answer. 7 The watchmen who went about the city found me. They struck me, they wounded me; The keepers of the walls Took my veil away from me. 8 I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, If you find my beloved, That you tell him I am lovesick!” (Song 5:3-8).

  • v.9-16 = a picture of the beloved: “fairest among ten thousand” (v.10)
  • “Yes, he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, And this is my friend.” (v.16).
  • Can you say that of Jesus, that He is your friend?
  • Many people become comfortable in their relationship with God and lose their passion  to get up and pursue. But she has an awakening and goes chasing after him!
  • This is what sometimes happens to us in our relationship with God.


“1 My heart is confident in you, O God; no wonder I can sing your praises! Wake up, my soul! 2 Wake up, O harp and lyre! I will waken the dawn with my song. 3 I will thank you, LORD, in front of all the people. I will sing your praises among the nations. 4 For your unfailing love is higher than the heavens. Your faithfulness reaches to the clouds.” (Psalm 108:1-4, NLT).

PRACTICAL APPLICATION: How can we stir up our heart to seek God?

  1. Return to your first love. First things first – abiding in Jesus in prayer.
  2. Make a commitment to read the Bible on a regular basis. “as newborn babes, desire the pure milk of the word, that you may grow thereby, if indeed you have tasted that the Lord is gracious.” (1 Peter 2:2-3).
  3. Spend personal daily time in worship. Also listening to worship CD’s.
  4. Meditate on the love of God. Think about the Cross! “Behold…” (1 John 3:1). Hang onto the promises: “I will never leave you nor forsake you” (Heb. 13:5) and “nothing can separate you from the love of God.” (Romans 8:35-39). God loves you!
  5. Get rid of the little foxes. “Catch us the foxes, the little foxes that spoil the vines, for our vines have tender grapes.” (Song 2:15). Confess any sin in your life.
  6. Read good Christian books that will teach you about God’s love (see library).
  7. Get around other Christians who are on-fire for Jesus and spend time with them.


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Pastor Chris Jordan’s Blog:                  
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About Chris Jordan

Husband. Father. Author. Pastor. High School Bible Teacher. Follower of Jesus. And I enjoy a good cup of coffee!
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