How Can I Be Happy When Life Is Hard? – #Sermon of the Week


James #2 - Life is Hard

(Beausejour Church – Pastor Chris Jordan)

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INTRO TO SPEAKER: Discuss dancing & singing to Whitney Houston song at Superstore.

INTRO TO TOPIC: Discuss the song “Happy” by Pharrell Williams.

  • Happy reached the top of the US Billboard Hot 100 for the week ending March 1, 2014.
  • The song has remained at the No. 1 position longer than any other song this year to date.
  • The single passed its 4 million sales mark in April 2014, the first song of 2014 to do so.
  • As of the week of May 10, 2014, Happy = on top of the Billboard Hot 100 for ten weeks.
  • Why is this simple, catch little song so popular? Because people want to be happy!
  • But – life is hard, and few people experience that happiness. Why? Let’s explore that…


“James, a bondservant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ, To the twelve tribes which are scattered abroad: Greetings.” (James 1:1, NKJV).

  • Review last week: James = the half-brother of Jesus.



“2 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. 4 But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.” (James 1:2-4, NKJV).

  • Just because you’re a Christian doesn’t mean you’re not going to go through hard times.
  • “Some were mocked, and their backs were cut open with whips. Others were chained in dungeons. Some died by stoning, and some were sawed in half; others were killed with the sword. Some went about in skins of sheep and goats, hungry and oppressed and mistreated. They were too good for this world. They wandered over deserts and mountains, hiding in caves and holes in the ground. All of these people we have mentioned received God’s approval because of their faith, yet none of them received all that God had promised.” (Heb. 12:36-39, NLT).
  • James says, “WHEN you fall into various trials,” not “if.”
  • Remember when you go through trials:
    • God is not punishing you, failing you or abandoning you:
      • Jesus has promised: “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” (Heb. 13:5).
    • God will not necessarily make it all better for you.



  • “My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials.”
  • Notice James says, “WHEN.” Trouble WILL come! (Quote John 16:33).
  • You’re either in a storm, just coming out of one, or a storm is coming. Get ready!
  • Joy is not the same as happiness. Happiness comes and goes based on our circumstances:
    • When life is going good, you can be happy.
  • Joy is the fruit of the Holy Spirit – and the joy of the Lord is our strength.
  • We can have joy even in the midst of a trial.
  • “looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” (Heb. 12:2).


  • “knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.”
  • Trials aren’t fun, but if they can produce patience = steadfastness & perseverance.
  • Patience defined: “the characteristic of a man who is not swerved from his deliberate purpose and his loyalty to faith and piety by even the greatest trials and sufferings.”
  • Do you want to be strong and persevere? It comes after we go through trials.
  • People want to be in shape without working out or eating healthy. But it’s a cause and effect thing. If you go through trials, you can develop perseverance!


  • “But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete.”
  • People say: “I want to be buff without working out! I want to learn a lot without reading books!” It’s only as you joyfully, patiently endure a trial, your character is developed!
  • The end result = you become more like Jesus.

ILLUSTRATION: The birth of a giraffe. The trial strengthens it.

When a baby giraffe is born it drops ten feet to the ground and lands on its back. Within seconds, it rolls to an upright position with its legs tucked under its body. The mother giraffe lowers her head long enough to get take a quick look. Then she positions herself over the baby, waits for about a minute and then swings her leg outward and kicks her baby so that it is sent sprawling head over heels. If it doesn’t get up, the process is repeated over and over again. The struggle to rise is monumental. As the baby calf grows tired, the mother kicks it again to stimulate its efforts. Finally the calf stands for the first time, and then the mother kicks it off its feet again. Why does the mother persist? Because she knows the giraffe cannot get comfortable; it must stay with the herd for safety. Too many animals enjoy eating young giraffes.

  • Every trial and temptation is designed to help us to develop patience and perserverence.



“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.” (James 1:5-8).

  • Too many people look to ‘self-help’ when they go through problems.
  • We don’t need self-help – we can’t help ourselves! – we need God’s help.
  • Because life is hard, we need God’s wisdom to navigate life’s trials and troubles!
  • Do you want wisdom for living life? It starts with the BIBLE.
  • The Old Testament is full of wisdom literature = Proverbs = daily wisdom for life.
  • James = the New Testament equivalent of Proverbs = wisdom for living for Jesus!

“Let the lowly brother glory in his exaltation, but the rich in his humiliation, because as a flower of the field he will pass away. For no sooner has the sun risen with a burning heat than it withers the grass; its flower falls, and its beautiful appearance perishes. So the rich man also will fade away in his pursuits.” (James 1:9-11).

  • It doesn’t matter if you’re rich or poor – everyone has their own trials and troubles.

“Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.” (James 1:12).

  • When we persevere and endure temptation and trials, God blesses us!

“Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone. But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, brings forth death. Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren.” (James 1:13-16).

  • God never tempts us to sin. Temptations come from our own desires that lead to sin.
  • Sometimes hard times and trials are a result of our personal sin – but not always.



“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.” (James 1:17).

  • Even though life is hard, we must also remember that God is good.
  • “The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10).
  • Every good thing you have in your life comes from God. Have you thanked Him for it?

THE BIG IDEA: How can we be happy when life is hard? When we remember that God is good, and that every trial can cause us to grow and become more like Jesus.

PRAYER: For those who are going through trials right now.

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About Chris Jordan

Husband. Father. Author. Pastor. High School Bible Teacher. Follower of Jesus. And I enjoy a good cup of coffee!
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